Thank you Redfox20 – Wise words. I had been thinking the same. To take him basic food until he is paid again but make it clear we won’t do it again. He earns more than enough to live on and save to treat his daughter but the drugs are more important to him than her. I know we have to be strong and stick to what we say. It is good he lets us have his money but I feel if he keeps on building up debts the stress of trying to help him manage his money will just be too much for us to take.