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I know, but the thing is I didn’t get with someone who had a problem.

Been together 8 years and it’s been in the last two years this started and only knew the truth in January of this year or I wouldn’t of got involved with him.

No worries I am just on this patience and stress with lots of things.

[jk28]

I don’t know if that’s a joke, he hasn’t done it the whole relationship, so I had no need to ask.

Isn’t this meant to be a place to talk and have advice not have digs

[jk28]

Says he hasn’t taken any for two months but his behaviour and symptoms haven’t changed, not sleeping properly and his nose is constantly running and blocked etc.

I don’t know I just wanted to make sure he got help with us being together so long but at this moment in time I only see myself eventually leaving. We dont seem to have a couples relationship anymore anyway

[jk28]

Probably yes because it’s flirty messages too and he denies anything went on but obviously I don’t trust him.

Thankfully we didn’t have any kids yet, everything was leading to marriage and children but I wouldn’t even consider that now.

It’s not no ties we have this house together and a mortgage to sort too

[jk28]

Yes I thought that too just on a downer because in April I found the messages about getting some again. It’s like appeasing me for some time and then doing it anyway.

Yeah I don’t accept the girls two of which worked within the same business we do and we’re always distant to me with fake hellos and I knew instinctively that it was odd and he would tell me I’m being paranoid, but since seeing messsges he had gone on nights out them and one of his best friends (so the 4 of them)… So I also feel betrayed and embarsssed seeing his friends now because they must think we are a joke!

we are just living together Im mentally gone in this relationship I feel I’m just sticking around because I want him to get help for his own sake because it worries me. Although I sometimes think I should be more selfish like he is. At the end of the day I can help him like I have and I can’t do more than that.

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