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Hi,
A year later and same old blog. My sons probably on his 3rd job of the year. He’s working away which gives me a reprieve, don’t know how long it will last. Today I made the decision to cut him off. I have blocked him in every way to contact me and wrote him a lengthy letter. I have tried taking him to group therapy, he went in and walked back out, I have taken him to the doctors and made countless appointments, I have paid for a private councilling session, which went well but he never returned and I arranged a visit from rehab which he refused to go to. I know in my heart i have taught him right from wrong and have tried all I can. It’s down to him. I have told him I will be here when he is making attempts to help himself. Trying to stay strong but it’s heartbreaking. xMy storey seems to similar to most. I have a 25 year old son hooked on Cocaine, started with canabis. Comes from a loving family and still lives at home, has lost jobs and suffers with paranioa. I have just returned from hospital this morning as he had up all night going through every cupboard, drawer and suitcase, as apparently we are trying to set him up. This is having an impact on my health and career and all because i cant show tough love and throw him out. I am paying off his debt, which keeps growing. He’s sorry for putting me through this and promises it won’t happen again. I find it hard finding the right support for him? Please help!!