[karen1972]

I understand completely, my husband is the kindest man when he’s sober , however when he’s drunk he’s a complete pig , nasty with his words and tends to get a little handy , his family don’t help as they like a drink and don’t seem a problem with his drinking , so the way I cope is I no longer talk with him when he’s drunk , I just busy myself ,go walking spend time in the garden , and when he’s sober and ready to talk , I just tell him how scared I am when he’s drunk and foe a few weeks he’s sober , I mean I have no idea how to cope with it all ,its just getting easier to leave , but then I talk myself out of it as its a scary prospect . Best advice I can give is always make sure your sage and never argue when there drunk ,find a happy place for 10 mins to keep your sanity .

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