Hi I am in a similar situation I have been with my fiancee for 13 years he tells me how much he loves me and are 4 children we got together I recently found I was pregnant with number 5 and he was over the moon about it but the past week he been on a bender with a family friend who’s a woman but he swears nothing is going on between them they are just best friends but I heard them talking in my garden yesterday and I heard her say no I am not going to put her thro this no more I love u both, I asked them to leave but didnt expect him to stay out all night a d day with her, he just text me asking if I have any money as he is struck in dover but has no fuel to get back I said I will only transfer money if he comes home to us so we can talk about what’s going on with us.
Totally lost and upset