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Exactly! You don’t get back these years with your children, yet they would rather be out poking crap up their nose and wasting money. I said for what reason should I continue waiting for him to make things right and not move on… he said ‘love’… as if that’s enough. What good is having love but being unhappy. Even when they admit it makes it no easier I promise you. It leads you into thinking things will get better… maybe they do… just a case of when?! ???? xx
I literally say the same, my life would be easier with him dead or in prison. I understand an addiction can’t be easy but at what point does someone have to get to , to think enough is genuinely enough and knock it all on the head. I dunno, I barely drink and don’t touch drugs so it makes no sense to me. Thanks hun and you too ❤️
I feel your pain. My partner of 12 years has a coke and alcohol problem. Time and time again I hear ‘I need help’ ‘I’ll get help’ ‘I’m done with it all’ … for me to time and time again be put through it. Without it our family is wonderful, but his circle of friends are all the same and he is drawn back in every time. I am exhausted and broken from trying to keep my family together aswell as hold down 2 jobs and a household. I dont tell anyone because nobody gets it , they think it’s as simple as ‘don’t put up with it just leave’… I did once, but then fell back into the vicious cycle. I feel week and pathetic