[kim32]

Thanks for your reply, he’s generally only like that when he’s on drugs without drugs he’s totally different such a shame

The home is mine and my children’s I wouldn’t want to cause them stress by moving out of their home but also can’t stand the fact when I try to end things he comes here and kicks off I’m trying to shield them from all of this that’s half the reason I give in so he just stops the rage. I think I need to get some sort of retraining order on him so we can live in peace . I’m just at my wits end and lost on what to do! I didn’t sign up for this and nor did my children..so hard isn’t it !!! . I’m all up for helping him but he’s not helping himself!

Thanks again for chatting does help

[kim32]

Thanks for your reply, he’s generally only like that when he’s on drugs without drugs he’s totally different such a shame

The home is mine and my children’s I wouldn’t want to cause them stress by moving out of their home but also can’t stand the fact when I try to end things he comes here and kicks off I’m trying to shield them from all of this that’s half the reason I give in so he just stops the rage. I think I need to get some sort of retraining order on him so we can live in peace . I’m just at my wits end and lost on what to do! I didn’t sign up for this and nor did my children..so hard isn’t it !!! . I’m all up for helping him but he’s not helping himself!

Thanks again for chatting does help

[kim32]

Reading your story made me what to ask for help

Hey new to all this and just desperate for some help,

My boyfriend of 3 years is a daily cocaine addict. I didn’t know until about 6 months in , was totally nieve to the whole thing.

He’s tried rehab but lasted a day. Other then that he hasn’t bothered! I can’t cope anymore the relationship is toxic he’s selfish he’s spending all he’s and my money. I work full time and have 3 teens not he’s children they are starting to witness all the toxic stuff that comes with an addict! I want rid of him until I know he is clean and fully clean I’ve tried to support him he done 10 days recently and life was so good calm and happy! Now back to everyday. Shouting first thing in the morning , erratic behaviour throughout the day and then 4 hours of sitting in the bedroom with a towel over he’s face so spiders can’t get in he’s mouth and nose! My issue is getting rid of him! When I try to Chuck him out he abuses me mentally smashes my house up and threatens so much I just take him back for peace! But this time I want rid! I know I can call the police but they only contact social services ! I have no where to go myself with 3 teens I just feel trap in this cycle and can’t see any end to it! Any advice

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