Thank you for your reply. He has admitted to using and had promised to stop. However every time something goes bad that he cannot handle he goes back to his old ways. Which tbh is more often than not. Than I have to deal with the effects of him using. Family members tell me to just kick him out and move on. To some degree I can understand their point. But I really feel like I’m turning my back on my best friend. He has been apart of my life for so long. We where just friends for 9 years before we started dating. He means so much to me. I have given him ultimatum that he go for counselling and he agreed. Far as I know he has been attending. But still uses drugs and alcohol to cope with day to day stresses
