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Thanks for your reply Fin. It’s so difficult because it makes me feel like it’s me…like there is something wrong with me because he says he hasn’t got a problem. If he hasn’t got a problem then why am I currently in the situation I’m in now. Looking on this website I found the download about boundaries. I spoke to him about it, asked for some time away from weed, just him to be him, for it not to be part of my life every day. He agreed that i could have today. We’ve had a nice day, he was a bit short tempered this morning but overall we’ve had a nice few hours out of the house. As soon as we get back in he said “are you gonna moan if I have a joint” of course I said yes and now he’s sulking, he doesn’t want to do anything, everything I suggest he’s shrugged off and now he’s gone to sleep, making me feel like I’ve done something wrong. He said it was the same as having a fag or having a brew, we’ve been out and done stuff today and now we’re back home so what does it matter. He says my ideas about it are all wrong, are they? Am I wrong to think it’s a problem that he can’t just be with me without having a smoke every day?!? So sad

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