This sounda so familiar. I have done everything i can think of other than walk away. I realise now that ive been enabling for years but what can you do when you are literaly the only person they’ve got. My son has PTSD and i know he struggles but he is making it worse and getting into debt. Im tired of saving him and giving my money away. I have a decent job but im living like a pauper. Its getting me down that much i just want to leave and start a new life. I love my son dearly but i cant take much more.