Hi. My son is the same. He is now17. Missed the last year of school. He has been using it since 14 I think. I’ve stopped giving him money. But he now works so has his own money. He doesnt pay me any board. I have been on my own with him since he was 3. So difficult. I cant make him see that he has potential etc and it is just heartbreaking for all his family but he doesn’t seem to care or want to change x