Hi I’m new to this .I’m with a user and have witnessed his decline over the last year.It has been a year of hell a rollercoaster ride.Lies emotional blackmail broken promises are what I’m dealing with on a daily basis.He still is no longer deluded about the addiction and knows it’s a hard struggle to come off.His life is unravelling financially it is affecting us he is facing a driving ban and I have told him I am going to leave.Its a chaotic world…I love this man to bits but cant continue az we are .I’m heartbroken but have said we can still see each other from my safe place.I just hope he has the strength and will to beat it