Hi, thank you for your response. He’s been clean and sober for four weeks now, since I found out, but hasn’t used cocaine since November (thanks to pain from Covid)
He goes to one meeting, as well as individual therapy once a week, and couples counselling once a week, plus with a young family that doesn’t leave us much time…
I’ve read a lot of useful things that you’ve posted and he’s reading the book that was suggested which is helping (I think!)
Glad to hear that you’re doing so well and I really appreciate your perspective