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Thanks like you I didn’t realise the theft , some of it I would uncover after ages example an old digital camera I discovered missing so angry as it had last pictures of my mum before she died I no Linder have , an old phone same stuff and then I’ve had the police for the work theft raiding the home etc jewellery not even expensive but sentimental from gifts I became a detective almost having to buy back my daughter game consoles from cash converters, this shows how low it gets from being awarded commendation in the community by our Mayor to fighting in the street over stolen bikes with other thieves it’s a dreadful life , I agree find a point to cut off according to your principles, mine has been messaging other women who are addicts it was actually the last straw as I never saw him being unfaithful too he was always so against that and the thought of that has been the worst people have said they are known prostitutes so I have had to get tested for that too
And sorry if I sound so negative love is not the cure for addiction that is just hopeful as I have seen multiple people go through the intensive most loving rehab and it’s pot luck as numerous people my partner was with have died and their families partners children were so supportive they might as well not even tried as they still chose to go back and 50/50 became worse or dead it’s just has to be that person themselves at rock bottom the more support you give it drags you down
I had to reply my first post i could be you but further down the line , if I had advice it would be leave as I have been there still there been to the twelve steps sponsored councillors and then finally he did an intensive almost 2 years residential rehab the shining star almost got married bought the dress had it booked he started again
If I thank my lucky stars thank god I never married and then he has limped along job after job stealing money from work, hiding things my possessions missing his sons possessions missing none of his children want to know him , hanging with prostitutes it’s been the worst thing in my life and now he is like a shuffling complete heroin addict hanging around the next road from me with a women who has no teeth and one eye and looks like your worst horror film and him he was the funniest most articulate charismatic intelligent so good looking man I cannot even recognise it’s truly the worst thing I ever saw he doesn’t wash is being arrested for theft assault, I don’t believe he will ever stop sorry it’s my first post and like you everyone loved him my daughter family friends I spent almost 10 years going in a circle ☹️