[lostgirl]

I have no answer for you but I could have written that.

Been with my husband 9years, married for 6, with a 4 year old and 1 year old. He is ok in the week, sometimes lovely, sometimes a bit moody but generally normal, however every weekend he likes a drink and can’t drink without the coke, can work Saturday morning, go out Saturday afternoon and not come home until Sunday morning and then spend all day in bed. It’s gone past being a social thing he does on nights out with friends and will now bring it home and sit downstairs on his own drinking and taking drugs all night. I have told him if he ever brings them in the house I will divorce him, but I sit upstairs and know what is going on downstairs and just can’t face coming down to deal with it. He leaves most of the childcare to me, but when he does interact with the kids they love it and I don’t want to split them up. I don’t see it getting better though, and the longer it goes on the worse I imagine it will get, I give ultimatums but he does it anyway and i stay, i don’t know how bad it will have to get or what will make me draw the line and stick to it

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