[loulou30]

Iv been with my partner a year, once a month he goes off for a few days and takes crack. I don’t hear anything from him during that time, he turns his phone off. Once he’s back on planet earth he’s sorry etc. Last month when he went off I ended it, I told him I can’t be put through this every month! But within 24hrs I was a wreck, I couldn’t handle the pain and regretted ending it so I took him back. When he’s not on it he’s great, I can’t fault him at all. But as I’m typing this he has gone off again taking all him wages. Iv texting him telling him it’s over. BUT I’m struggling already, I can’t go through this once a month, but i also don’t want to loose him.

Now my problem is if I take him back he will think that he can continue to go off once a month because I will keep taking him back. Do I roll with the pain of loosing him and not cave in again? Will he eventually stop taking crack? He was into it very heavily about 6 months before I met him for about a year, taking it daily. If he can go from that to taking once a month surely he has the strength to stop the urges?

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