[mammavic]

Admitting you have a problem is a great place to start. My daughter has been regularly using for at least 2 years. Even on Christmas Day and at a household bbq during lockdown. I’d love her to just be honest with us, the lies are so destructive. I wish you lots of love and strength and from a family members perspective, the truth however ugly it is, is far better than the breach of trust.

[mammavic]

Thank you I will, this conversation has helped me more than you know. Best wishes

[mammavic]

I appreciate your frankness and honesty, it makes sense but also makes me realise that this is not a situation that’s going to change anytime soon either.

[mammavic]

I’ve read everything I can on the effects of Cocaine; And given her developing medical knowledge my daughter also knows what the risks are and what the long term affects are.

I just don’t understand why she’s so untruthful about it and won’t admit what she’s doing. Her lies are destroying our family, as well as lack of responsibility for the hurt she’s causing everyone who loves her.

[mammavic]

She’s prepared to speak to my husband to a small extent, but it was her choice not to speak to me. I have been blocked by phone and social media, I emailed her and that when she said I was dead to her. I know it sounds selfish, but I’m exhausted by her and since my grandson is with his dad, I am not nattering about him.

I guess I have to wait for her to reach out to me. I hate this situation, my knowledge of drugs was zero before all this, I just want my daughter back and not the fractured family we have right now

[mammavic]

Hi

Since I’m currently dead to her it’s doubtful. She currently has a loose relationship with the truth and vehemently denies using coke, even when presented with evidence. I have run out of ideas of how to get through to her to be honest.

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