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I would nip it in the bud pronto , my husband of 24 years walked out 7 months ago on me and our children I found it recently it was all down to a secret coke habit , he’s lost his car his savings his family his own self respect , confront her in a non judgemental way but make sure you face up to it right away the heart ache and devastation my husband has left is heartbreaking ???? good luck
mammyessexParticipantHiya yeah thankyou same shit different day x but gotta keep going x have a great day x
mammyessexParticipantYou to lovely ❤️❤️❤️
mammyessexParticipantThanks I’m so sorry about your husband I think they believe there own lies x Why hasn’t mind even tried in our relationship i don’t even get the Empty promises that he doesn’t want to loose us , he’s happy too , I’m scared for the drug test Sunday would love it if he passes but if he does he’s not taking it and stil doesn’t realise what he’s lost god I’m sounding like a broken record x thanks for your support x
mammyessexParticipantWow that is absolutely amazing so pleased for you and your son x
mammyessexParticipantThankyuu I’ve been cuddling my sons which breaks my heart even more cos he walked out on us so easy without even trying to fight for us x I wish I could stop thinking of it all even for a day I’m even dreaming of it , how are you getting on x
mammyessexParticipantThank you so much yes I have there posts have been a great support to me as have yours and the other mothers in the Theresa thread x is your son still in his recovery ? Much love and thanks for replying x
mammyessexParticipantBad night tonight , can’t stop crying it’s finally hitting home that my husband isn’t here he left , he chose drugs over me ,our marriage had obviously been all a lie if he can walk away so easy , not sure I can recover from all this hurt
mammyessexParticipantI’ve actually used the words to describe him somebody that I used to know x awful ????
mammyessexParticipantI’m
Not sure I could ever forgive mine , for cocaine yes I could but leaving my kids with nothing I just can’t x maybe if he realises what a huge mistake he’s made and does everything to make it up to us possibly you Just don’t know until your in that position x another woman was always my worse fear , give me that over this any day x
mammyessexParticipantI’ve had exactly the same thoughts x we have had hard times financially years ago but I had him with me and together we got through it , now it’s caused through him , he’s lost everything we’ve built up and what for to sit and sniff ? Mine does it on
His own too x looking back over the last 18 months I’ve seen a massive decline in our relationship and not for one second did I think it was drugs , I can’t see how I’m going to get out this rut x
mammyessexParticipantI’ve had exactly the same thoughts x we have had hard times financially years ago but I had him with me and together we got through it , now it’s caused through him , he’s lost everything we’ve built up and what for to sit and sniff ? Mine does it on
His own too x looking back over the last 18 months I’ve seen a massive decline in our relationship and not for one second did I think it was drugs , I can’t see how I’m going to get out this rut x
mammyessexParticipantMine bailed before I even gave him the option I honestly don’t know what’s worse they’ve got to no they’ve massively f. Up surely ???? the lies , deception sneaking around has made me not even trust my own judgement anymore if I can’t trust my childrens father and my partner of 21 years ago the hell can I trust ? Such a bloody waste I’m
Never going to accept I lost my marriage to cocaine x
mammyessexParticipantI no I just can’t understand how he ever thought it was ok for me to be in this position my kids are my life , god I’d die for them that’s why I would never never choose to do drugs not even once that’s the difference between me and him x
mammyessexParticipantHi lovely thanks so much x it’s just an awful position they’ve put us in isn’t it , he’s the one who’s gave me everything I’ve wanted but it’s him taking it away I can’t believe my life is this now , I’m living week to week dreading the tests it’s just no good on any of us x love and strength to us all we are super strong living through this even if we don’t feel it , our futures will be happy with our kids , with or without them in it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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