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Hi Rainbows, I’m really sorry to read your story. I hope you are doing better now with your ex out if your life.
Hi. You have been so helpful on here giving lots of advice to others I’m hoping you have some time to help me? I’m in a similar situation as the original message of this thread but the baby is born and my boyfriend hasn’t changed and I don’t think he will, not now at least.. what worries me is that he has been abusive and violent and I’m scared he would do something to harm me/my baby if I break up with him. Once when drunk and provably Hight too he threatened he would have killed me if I didn’t put him down as the dad on the birth certificate. He said he has nothing to lose and he would have stabbed me.. because he is a bit crazy I cannot stop wondering if he truly meant he’d do that.. and I do not know how to get rid of him in the best possible way. Thank you
Hi, I was in a similar situation like you, I met someone and soon when I got pregnant i realised he has a serious drug addiction and it’s also the cocaine. I was so naive to hope he’d change when he would promise again and again that he would and do nothing to actually stop using it like stop seeing his friends, go to see a doctor. So if I could turn back time I’d leave him before the baby is born. Please trust me I know you may not think so right now but once the baby is born you will really really not care much about this guy or think how you’ll bring the baby without a dad like I did. And if he is not changing and he can be abusive etc imagine what environment that’ll create for the newborn. Do it now so that by the time the baby is here you are a bit recovered from this relationship. It will be a lot more difficult to leave him with a newborn because the baby is going to change your world completely for the better. I wish I did that… now he’s still in our lives claiming He wants the baby and me and does nothing for both of us only making things worse.. and now I want to break up with him so much but I’m scared for my safety and what if he steals my baby… please do it now if you can – it’ll be the best thing for you and your baby. If he changes fine you can consider giving him a chance to be there but if he doesn’t you’ll save yourself a lot of health.. good luck and take care, congratulations on your pregnancy, it is the best thing ever, you will see.