[marie1234]

Thankyou x he txt me today all nice at 6am 3 times I was a sleep and didn’t reply so I did when I woke but wished I didn’t he been awful again , my head is all over the place , hope you stay strong and thankyou for your replies makes me feel like I’m not on my own x

[marie1234]

Sounds a lot like what I have been going through for a long time exactly the same … I just thought he was moody and over worked and stressed ?? It’s always been there since I met him but it was only about 3 times a year he’d go out amd come home high but reading between the lines if he has a hole in his nose it must of been happening at home too he could eat his tea which everyone says they can’t eat ??? He’d then have about 6/8 bottles of larger a night to wind down after work I didn’t see the signs ? Just the mood swings amd the accusations and making me feel un loved amd to our son … as soon as I discovered the truth he went all defensive and blames us , I really hope he sees sense amd comes home and says he will stop for us but reading on here I think I’m wasting my time hoping x

[marie1234]

That’s heartbreaking that your children miss him and he hasn’t even bothered to call ? My son is older too and he has a baby son of his own and even that hasn’t been enough to ring him to see how his grandson is? Because I’ve never noticed the problem before as I work I’m a Mam and a nana and have elderly parents I am always busy and he has got away with it , now that I see it he doesn’t like it amd as soon as I stared asking questions or asking him to get help I think he went the other way as he can’t live without it , it’s really sad ???? but they don’t care at all cos it makes them have no feelings or emotions it’s us that have to pick up the pieces and try to carry on ?? I also have had to get antidepressants I can’t stop crying day 4 of them and they still haven’t worked just making me feel shakey I don’t know if it’s the tablets or the stress to be honest what a nightmare x

[marie1234]

They are so selfish it’s like they are a different person ? It’s good to know I’m not alone in this as no one really understands I don’t even understand it myself ? I feel like it’s all happened so quickly and I was unaware all this time?? My husband also has not been in contact with our son and so she last night left me a awful txt and told me to leave him alone so I have but the silence is killing me im used to him being in contact with me all the time ? It’s so heart breaking I can’t imagine how you must feel with 5 children too , I surpose we must feel the same pain x

[marie1234]

Thankyou , he has left me in debit also , my mortgage I can’t afford so I’ll lose my home too I’m so stressed I really didn’t see this coming and I think that what hurts me the most I always thought we would be together forever , it’s his vile personality like he doesn’t care about his family anymore ? He blames me and our son and says we are the problem ? They look like the person you love but it’s not them anymore it’s so hard xx

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