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The problem is with his family is then like to think of him as he can do no wrong.. they know he’s got problems and have bailed him.oit in the past but the frustration of him going back over I guess they are in denial

Its easier to lash at me and make out its my fault

He borrowed money and she didn’t ask me if it was for what he said, I’d already said no because I could tell it wasn’t the truth

Because he’s not got the money and I have to put my bills and food etc before anything I’m not selfish and I’m taking the mick?

Also alcohol is a trigger for his drug use and because she enjoys a drink she doesn’t see the problem..

Yet by her buying him alcohol as a treat .. he comes home wanting.. I’m tired of telling them both ..

Its literally so draining

Fighting with everyone including myself

I’m tired of getting blamed by everyone and I literally think the best option is to walk away but I wish it was that easy

Its a horrible fight im in with myself ????

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I also hear the same words and it is so difficult when you have to stay strong for your family..

We also have his daughter and he text me out of all things telling me he’s messed up again .. I have to hold my calm because of them

Limitations are definitely something I’m going to look at too however with the pressure and lies etc i doubt how successful it will be with my lack.of trust in him

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Thanks so glad I have found this now

Its the worst feeling been alone ????

Noone to talk too,

Its so hard.. hes my life but I’m losing myself it feels ????

I have tried speaking to his mum before but she aims anger at me and tells me she isn’t interested i can’t win

He can do no wrong

Thanks for been so kind x

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Thank you

He has got off it before and has said he is seeking help again

I feel like I need to support him but I agree I need to put me and my children first

I’m always a great believer in everyone deserves a chance to change but maybe I need to be stronger

It is like hell!

I have read so many posts and got so much information to help but I agree it needs to come from them!

Thank you so much for your reply and I will have a read and think about whether this is worth the fight x

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You can receive councilling I’ve been advised you can do together to help you overcome these issues

Well done to you and your partner for the recovery journey you have been on

Maybe seem some therapy to help overcome some of the issues kts created on the way to hopefully heal the damage it has caused you both along the way

I’m still in battle with my partner and his cocaine addiction he has took the steps to get help but I agree the trust lies deception isn’t easy to get over and I find it hard to trust anything right now

Fingers crossed for you both x

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I am struggling with the same thing partner of 3 years has a bad cocaine addiction im trying my best im hurting so much and I have tried and tried to help but whens the right time to walk away ..

So sorry your going threw this

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