Thank you Debc. Yes my grandson lives with me and my husband every other week. And the other grandmother the other time. We have been going to court. It’s a mess. I know I have to stay strong for the children involved. But it gets overwhelming. It’s nice to cents to others who understand. You are right my son has to decide to get the help he needs. And it makes it harder when his wife uses too. They feed off each other. I’m always here for anyone who wants to talk. We are in this fight together.