[mj2021]

Hi everyone well I wrote on here a while back going through a really bad time, however my partner was flat out we had no relationship he didn’t see his daughter it was a mess. I also think cheating was def involved but couldn’t proove it. Anyway fast forward a few months so he turned a corner a few months back he got himself into rehab he’s come out a different person been a few months he’s like a completely different guy no coke he does drink but that crap has gone. He’s been amazing with his daughter I don’t know why or how but I think he hit rock bottom and realised if he didn’t do something he be dead. But so far he’s been great I’m not saying it been easy when he first come out of rehab he was saying I don’t want that crap in my life no more on one occasion someone offered it and he said no. But he’s chilled out he’s caring nothing like the idiot he was so fingers crossed it continues my heart goes out to u all as it is so hard

[mj2021]

Hi yes at least I know I don’t blame the girl he was the one that went around there off his face he was all over her amd her friends. I’ve also been told he was taking ketamine I have no idea what this is. Seems like he’s getting worse never going to change still denied going to her house after I spoke to her. And today emailing laughing emojis like it’s a big joke no remorse nothing I’m done

[mj2021]

Hi we’ll update to my last post I found out he’s been lying for weeks months he was with a girl on sat his ex from a while back he turned up at hers off his face she thinks it’s more than coke ketamine he was in a right mess. But if he can turn up at a girls house after swearing down on his daughters life no women there’s no trust I’m ending now and kind of feel relieved I know now

[mj2021]

It’s so sad he messaged me sat night to pick him up think he’d been to town and up a girls house but he had no money no beer so I went just to

See what he was like he was clearly on it he doesn’t ask about his daughter nothing like she don’t exist no feelings nothing like it’s all gone still lieing denying any women apparently it’s him and the boys I don’t think so but I just got to move on I feel for you aswell

[mj2021]

It’s so sad he messaged me sat night to pick him up think he’d been to town and up a girls house but he had no money no beer so I went just to

See what he was like he was clearly on it he doesn’t ask about his daughter nothing like she don’t exist no feelings nothing like it’s all gone still lieing denying any women apparently it’s him and the boys I don’t think so but I just got to move on I feel for you aswell

[mj2021]

It’s so sad he messaged me sat night to pick him up think he’d been to town and up a girls house but he had no money no beer so I went just to

See what he was like he was clearly on it he doesn’t ask about his daughter nothing like she don’t exist no feelings nothing like it’s all gone still lieing denying any women apparently it’s him and the boys I don’t think so but I just got to move on I feel for you aswell

[mj2021]

Hi thanks for replying he’s in the grips of his addiction now out all the time I really need to stop all contact and focus on me and my daughter the lies will continue and it’s just draining me. So I need a complete break of it all I hope you ok worst situation I’ve ever been in ever

[mj2021]

Hi Dan why all the lies why does he not say who he’s with or where he is ? Why can he not tell the truth and how do u know if they’ve cheated he’s in full blown addiction mode now out for drinking really heavy to but seems to be in with a different crowd how do I detach myself from him completely

[mj2021]

Why do they lie about where they been and who they with

[mj2021]

Yer they won’t say who they with where they are nothing I think my ex is gonna be dead soon it’s excessive drinking his jobs not going well they monitoring him he’s using cocaine a lot more it’s really bad situation.

[mj2021]

I know this is the worst part the lies this is what I can’t get my head around I speak to his sister and she does tell me things he even denied he went out with these so called other addicts when I knew full well he had but why message me saying he had sex with some girl last night why would you do that. I’ve stopped all contact as I think my daughters better off without him he cannot be trusted not to go out and get off it it’s not a chance I’m gonna take he drives his dads car drunk

[mj2021]

Hi Lece can I just say something it’s same with me and him he hasn’t seen his daughter for months hel message how is she then try manipulating me do you want to go for food etc like nothings happend. When he’s on cocaine I don’t hear from him apart from early hours or morning after with vile perverted messages. He’s gambling but he s parents enabling him giving him money refusing to accept he’s an addict

[mj2021]

Hi Dan I had a pretty good idea he had been he went out all night till 6 in the morning wouldn’t say who he was with where he went even denied going out. Then he was messaging saying he’d had sex was I jealous etc but after he’s been on it he’s really vile and perverted is this also cocaine talk as I’ve never dealt with anything like it the messages are vile and perverted

[mj2021]

Hi I can’t believe how many people going through same things 4 years ago I met my partner didn’t realise how bad the addiction was at first knew he liked going out partying drinking. Fast forward and the last year has been hell we have a daughter nearly 2 he’s been to counselling that seemed to help but last few weeks again disappearing for weekends, no remorse no explanation where he’s been looks ill no interest in his daughter I’m stopping all contact by the way as he doesn’t live with me. But today again found out he’s been sniffing and drinking all day the lies he tells are horrendous when will this end and what do I do to stop this miserable life

[mj2021]

I’m in a similar situation was with my ex 3 years lie after lie out all night phone off using coke with female friends horrendous. Last October he started counselling all seemed to be going well but last few weeks the drinking began again then last week I found him sniffing coke in my bathroom massive row called his family to get him I’m done no more will I put myself through this selfish heartless man

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