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Hi, I think you have to make him realise that and remind him of what miserable life he had and difficulty before , it is hard but if you ignore it and left it then he gets deeper and deeper , he has to find him self and his weakness inside to be able to not relapse again he has to attend
support groups and have person who been through this before . You need support to be able to help your self and your husband. And takecare of your boy.
If need any help or want to talk to someone i am hear ,pray for him and make him to be nearer to god and i pray god will help him to find job soon .
Hi , i am in same boat, my partner been addicted to opium last 2 years , all lies and money issue , trust it is difficult, after these years i talked with his family and with help of them and praying god he came to point to see his life is getting apart so 4 days ago he is gone for recovery and finish this nightmare, to be honest i am angry of him but at same time proud that he found out himself and tried to saved himself.
I am very lonely as i do not want my family to know about it as well.
Oh ok then 10 years alot of time , thank , i am happy that he choose me over drug and he decided to sort him self for better future for both of us. X i wish you recover soon and get stronger day by day focus on your children you have them and thier love x
Exactly put plan together if this way he choose rather than you and his children then let me go , it is hard i know and understand, before my partner decided i put timeline for our relationship 6 month if he changed and chose me then ok otherwise i have to save myself a least one of us is been saved now you two children.
My partner was addicted to opium exactly same , money was missing, mistake after mistakes and lies are worse i agree, but i did shout at him i told him i know about his addiction and talk to his family , and pray every night day so he can admit and decide to be sober so a week ago he said he want his normal life back as i tried to be patient and be friend with him, now his is away for 2 weeks for recovery, you are not selfish as you have to be strong for your children and think about yourself but in my experience shouting leaving relationship does not help ,