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I have also wished for my ex husband to die .. then I can remember the happy times with our children and then he wouldn’t be around for the kids to witness the shell he is today xxx sending hugs xxx
I just cried when I read that .. this is the first time I have been on this site .. my story is almost identical to yours . My now ex husband is a heroine addict , only found out due to loss of money and possessions .. moved away to avoid the trigger .. gave him space ! Very similar , we also have 2 children .
I’m so sorry I can’t give you a success story that’s not why I replied , I just wanted to throw my arms around you and give you a hug. Don’t you agree addiction can be so consumed to just the user ? I am the mother of his children and was his wife for 12 years and yet the whole
Time I stayed with him after I found out about his addiction (2 years) it was all about HiM. What he needs , how he gets help , what I can do to support him… now here i am , i have moved on (his choice) he chose heroin in the end and thankfully he walked away to
Prevent our children being exposed to that side of life .. not one professional councillor , doctor , support worker anyone has ever reached out to support the family he destroyed !
I get so mad that society has developed some amazing tools to help addicts and support groups etc yet where the thought for family?
I’m so sorry to rant away on your feed I just was shocked how similar the stories were and I really hope
You get a happier outcome than I did , I hope he gets help and YOU TOO. Also please don’t force yourself to try and trust , of you can’t .. please have your own life , one shot is all we get please make your life about you xxx