Hey @Jamesb. I read many of your posts and would like to chat with you. My cocaine problem was recently discovered by wife and unfortunately I think that was the only way that I was going to stop and move to sobriety. I using probably biweekly to weekly on and off for the last 5 years. But it had picked up more frequently the last 2 years since covid. I am highly functional, we got married, bought a house and got a dog all in the last year and half. We both have great jobs and are financially stable. I just got addicted and could not resist the urge to have a stash and use when wanted. This has lead to more drinking and the urge to drink which lead to fights but I still never admitted to using cocaine. Now I am committed to sobriety and need to win back her trust as I hope she stays with me and supports me and realizes that I couldn’t will myself to stop this on my own. Even my closest friends weren’t aware. Thanks for taking the time to respond.