Thank you for your replies. Today I found alcohol in his car, like in a mcdonalds paper cup with the lid on it, yet when I opened it, realised it had red wine in it and not the normal hot drink you get. I really think its getting serious, as he’s obviously drink driving. I decided to call his mum today and tell her what has been going on. I’m so glad I did. She has been so supportive, along with my husbands step dad. They have said I should confront him later and tell him what the consequences will be if he doesn’t get his act together, as the last thing he will want is to lose me and our kids. They have said they will come round too to confront him if I want. I’ve told them, I’ll try it on my own first. I don’t think it’ll help, but anything is worth a try. I really don’t want to lose my husband, but myself and my kids can’t carry on like this forever. I think he’ll go mad when he knows I’ve told his mum, but I just really need the support and to talk to someone. Just hoping that he listens.
