My boyfriend is the same, we’ve only been together for 13 months, I had no idea he was so bad until I fell pregnant and stopped taking cocaine with him, that how we met through partying. I fell pregnant 4 months after meeting him, he never really wanted this baby or me in that matter because he wanted he’s ex back but he stayed with me & now I know what she put up with for 11 years! But he’s mum said he was never this bad like he is now. He lets me down all the time and doesn’t care to see me even if he’s sober! He spends loads on drugs, what should have been a happy time for us has been the worst for me,he’s horrible to me all the time. I’m due the baby in a week and told him for the last 2 weeks not to take nothing incase I go into labour and he’s still doing it. He’s not a everyday user, if we have arguments he can do about 3 weeks without talking to me even though I text first he still Blanks me even though most of the arguments are he’s fault ????