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Hey mammy, you can do this, think positive. I was like you especially in January, I suffered from depression and wanted to end it all but I thought about my kids and what I was leaving them with ( him)and thought he’ll no.so I said to myself get a grip,work earn my own money which I’ve always done anyway and live my life. The way I look at it is hes someone who just lives in the same house, we hardly talk and definitely don’t do anything else. So I enjoy my life. Love to you both, stay strong xx
Hey purple heart and mammy.i hope you are both ok? I’ve come to the realisation now that I can’t do anything to stop him so I just let him get on well it,he not hurting me or the kids ( just words to me when he’s on his come down I think) and I say who the hell do you think your talking to.then walk away. I know he has the capability of being violent with lots of drink in him too so always wary on his mood and face. But other than that I’m getting on with my life, feeling positive, walking, listening to music, concentrating on me for once.very rare I let him get me down anymore when he’s the problem. Oh and the lies lol he actually believes himself. I just say now oh here we go its story time. And he still carries on.plank.love to you both
Hey purple heart and mammy.i hope you are both ok? I’ve come to the realisation now that I can’t do anything to stop him so I just let him get on well it,he not hurting me or the kids ( just words to me when he’s on his come down I think) and I say who the hell do you think your talking to.then walk away. I know he has the capability of being violent with lots of drink in him too so always wary on his mood and face. But other than that I’m getting on with my life, feeling positive, walking, listening to music, concentrating on me for once.very rare I let him get me down anymore when he’s the problem. Oh and the lies lol he actually believes himself. I just say now oh here we go its story time. And he still carries on.plank.love to you both
Hey, probably had some first thing but not much or maybe after he saw your son.or maybe he never had none at all. I can’t tell anymore if my husband had had any unless he’s had loads and his face don’t keep still.i think he’s using every day or other day but just a bit x
I did just write a post buy I called him something so they won’t posy my messages so now I’m going to call him lovely names lol.anyway he said hes staying in bed all day because he has no money no fagsso what’s the point in moving. He then asked for crisps and pop lol he’s hilarious.
Hello beautiful ladies, well you have to laugh,mine thinks he lives in a hotel lol.so 9am this morning he’s eating a Yorke chocolate bar obviously needs the sugar, being on a come down.i said why you eating that so early, hes reply well I thought you were doing me a sausage sandwich. I said unfortunately only one member of staff on today at the hotel and shes trying to do a Sunday dinner, washing so you all have clean clothes for work and clean up.yesterday he sat all day with a blanket on him,drinking, smoking, betting and obviously sniffing when no one was around him.while I did the food shopping, moms uber, the tea you know the usual what we do. God hes hysterical honestly ???? idiot.
Shell, unfortunate he will never change so this will be your life and will just get worse im afraid. He’ll if I had somewhere to go I would of gone a long time ago, no love no more just hatred.i can never understand why someone chooses to put his family through shit just so he can sniff some Whitestuff.makes no sense x
Hey donthaveaclue, you know what I have no idea cause hes vile 95 percent of the time. So unless he’s face is gunning ( then I know he’s had loads( I think he has some most days.but he’s always horrible, talks to me like shit.x
Morning donthaveaclue,oh my god what is wrong with them. Mine had some on Thursday and Last night and I know he would of had it in the week too. Its getting ridiculous now, when I think about the amount of money he’s wasted on the stuff.im struggling to pay the bills my phone has been cut off because im trying to pay everything. I’m doing 16 hour shifts for him to say why you doing that? You don’t want for money or anything with me. Is he seriously that deluded.he gives me Money sometimes then throws it in my face. Rather do 16 hours a day a pay everything myself so I don’t have to beg.stay safe xx
Hi Roberto, finally admitted he had a problem two weeks tomorrow, I said you need professional help,no he said I can do it on my own. Three days later I was on a 16 hour shift, I walked in he wasn’t back, came in ten minutes after me off his nut. Then two days after, he’s taken it a few times in the week and then Thursday bad on it and had it last night. Why haven’t I left, no where to go, can’t afford high rent prices.and years ago domestic violence really bad,and every now and again he goes to or does be violent. So im scared deep down of his capability especially on that stuff.i personally would say to your man, get clean then phone you. Stay away until he’s clean and get out your marriage. It’s not called the devil’s drug for nothing. Listen to ed sheeran, bad habits. Every druggie hates that song lol, I wander why???? Stay safe and strong im here x
Hi d, how are you? Its not a life we are living its existing. I feel like I’m in hell every day. I never hate anyone but my god I have terrible thoughts about him and what I want to happen to him.is that bad?
Hi Roberto,my advice would be to run away, sorry its harsh but my husband is an addict on cocaine and drink,it’s an awful life living with him.the mood swings,lies,deceit and double life ,im constantly walking on egg shells and you will never have no money or life. Sorry for being honest