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Your words are that of a true survivor, and there might not have been a happy ending in your marriage ,but for you there is and your are a 100 per sent right ,society don’t offer no support for the family and when you do cry for help witch I did I ended up with social services on my back although they don’t stay in my life long I’m now to scared to tell anyone it’s a lonely world out there and good on you xx
I’m in a similar situation hun, and the sad thing is your the one feeling selfish for thinking about your feelings , and we are told how it’s our fault we treat them like a child or don’t clean the house or we don’t listen and understand then blamed for not helping them then blamed when we do we are loved one minute and hated the next, they want to come home today then leave tomorrow, they want us to listen to them but not to us we spend hours awake at night going over what happened that day and try and figure out what to change so we find our self falling in there trap
Example (we don’t clean up so we make sure we do ,we don’t cook so we make sure we do ,we don’t run a bath so we make sure we do .but no matter what we do to help there’s another problem one day it gets to the point we feel so worthless and low that we end up feeling guilty for feeling this way but that’s what it does to you I’m at a crossroad and I’m scared to let go and scared to stay x