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Hi, I will try to contact them, I really need help, I love my husband very much and can’t bear loosing my family. How does it work
Hi, I wish I could talk to you, I’m in the exact same situation and I don’t know what to do, have been with him for 16 yrs and I have just had my second child 1 month ago, I can’t cope with the lies and constant stress, but I just keep hanging on in the hope that he will be ok again, he’s the love of my life but has been a monster for the last 3 years. Feel broken and so week. They can only help themselves and there is nothing we can do, however if you feel like I do then you probably try to control the situation the best you can, and all that does is place un-imaginable stress on us. I wish I had the strength to put my needs first, but I don’t think I do
Hi kf, I know how you feel, I feel just at torn in my situation, when my husband is in recovery he is the best person I know, the problem is when he relapses it’s the most horrible and scary time of my life and it’s unbearable. I have just had my second child with him only a month ago and I’m constantly debating if I can trust him to stay clean, he has already used drugs twice since the baby has come and I just can’t bear the kids being let down by him like I am. However he is the best dad when he is ok. Can’t work out if I stay or go. He’s the love of my life, we have been together for 16 yrs but for the last 3 yrs I feel like he’s someone else because of the drug abuse. I feel like my husbands dead and has been replaced by a monster. Don’t have any fight left in me, but I can’t even find the strength to leave like you did. At least you put your kids first and took that step. I think your really brave. It’s hard to trust someone who has let you down so much. Stay strong, I hear of stories of husbands who turn there lives around when there partners leave them. I guess if they really loved us they would.