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Thank you so much for being there
nk123ParticipantYes you’re right. But you know sometimes you get to the point you’re like ‘you know what think what you want it no longer makes a difference’. No matter what I do I’m always going to be the villain in his side of the story I guess. Just hoping i can find a decent place to move too soon!
nk123ParticipantWow that is a lot of drink, my husband drink up to 70cl on his own when he’s with others it goes up to crazy amounts! When he used to drink beers it was still not as bad but now he doesn’t have those because any canned beverage gives him stomach pains due to his gastro issues.
Sorry she threw you out. I don’t want to be judgemental but seems it’s her fault but you suffered. It’s nice you helped her out, that’s the thing we don’t want to see our loved ones suffer but they don’t see it there’s just neglect and unappreciative behaviour.
My husband is becoming increasingly selfish he doesn’t care I have work early he’s drunk and loud until the early hours of the morning and when I’m up and getting ready he screams at me he needs sleep. He just expects me to cook clean etc and do my day job because I’m the wife. I just don’t know what world he’s living in.
Your friend is so right, I feel like I’ve wasted 8 years of my life with him. I’m so unhappy but he keeps saying I’m running away from the problem!
nk123ParticipantYou are right! I’m glad your partner realised although it must have been scary to find out just 6 months to live! To be honest I just want to separate I have told him to leave but he says no he pays half the rent! I am trying to find somewhere else but it’s not easy. He says no to a divorce too, tells me I think marriage is a joke or I’m trying to leave him because I’m cheating on him! It’s very hurtful.
nk123ParticipantThankS for messaging made me feel better! I’ve spoken to the doctor so many times. My husband has even been told by the doctor (when he’s been in hospital due to gastritis) he just doesn’t listen. Makes him unwell, affects the marriage but just doesn’t get it. How do you fix it?! ???? it’s so stressful! Hope things get better for you too!!
nk123ParticipantFeel your pain going through the same thing (though no kids) I’m stuck between leaving (or kicking him out rather) and being patient! His family pressurise a lot saying it will get better we will talk to him but nothing gets sorted
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