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Wow, I totally get you! I do everything!
I have 3 kids also and it is so hard trying to juggle everything and try to keep the kids away from his vile moods!
Been with him over 16 years and like your hub says he hates the stuff but can’t stay clean for longer than 5 days now. It used to be once a month then once every 2 weeks then once a week and now it’s a struggle to keep him away from alcohol for longer than 2 days and with alcohol obviously comes the coke. It’s an horrendous circle that we live through 🙁
I really hope your hubby stays clean and starts to treat you the way you deserve it’s sounds horrendous what you have been through and put up with. You are not alone x
I get exactly the same! It makes me so angry! Last week he came home again off his face, I threw water over him and threw shoes at him! I hate that he makes me so angry 🙁 he is also a cryer after and says how he will never do it again etc but he just can’t stick to it longer than 5 days now
Hi Herbie
I feel your pain, I doubt I can help but just wanted to try!
Have you spoke to him about it? Does he see that he has a problem?
Hi there, by the sounds of it u don’t have any children with him? And I am guessing you are still quite young? If that’s right, my advice is to leave and never look back. Start your life again while you can!
Please, believe me! After 16 years, 3 kids marriage and a house I can’t just leave!
You can have a great life still, but you won’t if you stay with him, if he has progressed to that it will be even harder for him to stop. X
Hi, I have been in the same boat for 14 years. Been with my husband for 16 years And have 3 children, eldest is 15 and notices A LOT now! He will literally finish work and just go to the pub then someone’s house anywhere and not come home until the next day – sometimes not even then! He won’t contact me and most of the time turns his phone off so if there was an emergency I couldn’t contact him!
He wants help but then starts thinking he can ‘do it himself’ then sees friends and everything goes out the window!
I’m at my wits end now I don’t know what to do 🙁
I would also like to know the if there is any hope?!