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Hi Pixie 74

I don’t have suggestions or advice that will help I’m afraid, but I do understand your frustration, anger and having no idea what to do to help your son, or to get him to stop.

I hope others can help you with their stories.

I hear that all the time ‘Everone does it’, and it’s true a lot of young people do, but when something takes over your day, it’s a problem.

I only found this group yesterday and knowing there was somewhere safe to go to share how I feel, was like a light being shone, albeit a match flame in a huge black room, but it’s a start. People care and understand and are willing to share their stories. You are not alone. I’m not alone. We have somewhere to offload.

I just wanted you to know I’m thinking of you x

[nothingleft]

Thank you so much for replying.

I just don’t know what to do anymore.

I’m so sorry you had a bad week. It’s not easy and I do feel for you.

I found out my son is in more debt than I thought at the weekend, lots more. I need to confront him, but that’s not easy. Just trying to get the strength to stay strong and see if he will agree to seeking help.

Take care

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Thank you for replying.

The weekend just went from bad to worse in my head and heart as I found out about more debt.

Yes, he wants help, or he says he does, but doesn’t do anything about it.

I think it’s an out of sight, out of mind thing, or he thinks everything is under control. It’s not.

I’m going to read through some of the posts. I didn’t actually think anyone would reply, so thank you.

Feeling very unsure if everything at the moment, so seeing someone had replied helped x x

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