[nova1985]

I’ve been trying to get him to give it a go but his is convinced it wont help, he is getting more and more depressed l, trying in vain to get him to see a doctor.

[nova1985]

Well I found some. Just confronted him.

[nova1985]

And you always got the support on here. Fingers crossed he keeps on the right path.

[nova1985]

Not heard of grey rock. Will look it up.

[nova1985]

That’s great news, so positive he has started the steps to recovery. So nice his parents are supportive of you both. Unfortunately for me his dad knows but I can’t talk to him cos he is nasty about it, it’s actually one of my husbands triggers.

[nova1985]

Hi, sorry to hear you are going through this, my husband also describes himself as a functioning alcoholic, he walk out a few times, spending the night in a hotel, and blaming me for the reasons. I don’t contact him when this has happened. We try and talk when he comes back and he is apologetic and things are Nice for a time. Try focus on something to keep yourself busy is my best advice, I find reading or a puzzle, but I also have two young children so I focus on activities with them. I don’t know of I been any help but you are not alone x

[nova1985]

Sorry you are still going through this and if this has brought up bad memories.

[nova1985]

Sorry to hear you are going through the same problem, I also try to rise above it, but he knows how to trigger me into a argument, then blame it all on me.

[nova1985]

Just came upon this post. I am in the same situation with my husband, when he drinks and gets triggered by something he can say some really hurtful stuff, then when i mention it the next day it’s always I was drunk, I can’t remember. He has admitted to having a problem but not doing anything to stop. We have two young children.

[nova1985]

Hi, my husband is the same, we have literally just had a argument about his drinking again, makes me so drained.

[nova1985]

Thank you

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