[oldbird]

Please don’t kill yourself – it is not too late to turn yourself around, My son was in the exact situation,

There are people who can help you, Stepchange is a good place to start with money problems if you owe companies money, they have helped me get out a financial mess.

Please visit the doctor or confide in someone if you can,

My son is in rehab at the moment and if he didnt have me im not sure he would still be here. i know this isnt the end once he comes out but hoping he will have the skills to change his life.

He used to tell me he would kill himself and its the worst feeling.

Please call someone even the samaritans, they are there to help x

[oldbird]

OMG yes my bank account has money in it this week ! i do feel relieved but anxious of what happens after he comes home.

I know i shouldnt think about that yet and take each day now at a time just like he is doing.

Can i ask, did this stop your sons drug use x

[oldbird]

Hi, Private, i am very lucky to have my Dad who has funded this for him, without his love and support we would be in a very different situation.

Hope you are ok x

[oldbird]

Thank you x

[oldbird]

Im sorry to hear you are struggling.

I am the parent of a user of cocaine and i know all the excuses / promises you must be telling.

i have watched him destroy himself over christmas – he is now in rehab as this was the last straw as this is destroying me and my relationship also.

i do beleive that talking to other users will help you but in the end you need to do this for yourself, do you have any problems from the past you are hiding from?

[oldbird]

I just read your post and realised you are totally right, I have been enabling my son all this time, I hope you strong enough to say No to him, im not there yet but rock bottom is very close. i send love and understanding to you and your family x

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