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Yeah I’m not sure I’m ready to do that yet but I know I will have to if he can’t stop. Its only been 9 months but its gone from once or twice to regularly. He says he’ll try and stop but he obviously can’t. He tries to make out I’m overreacting.
I used to drink a lot, I wouldn’t say I was an alcoholic but I was definitely drinking more than was sensible. And thanks to his views about this I’ve cut right back and am a better person for it.
I want to stand by him but I can’t accept it.
Is your partner still clean?
Yeah I’m not sure I’m ready to do that yet but I know I will have to if he can’t stop. Its only been 9 months but its gone from once or twice to regularly. He says he’ll try and stop but he obviously can’t. He tries to make out I’m overreacting.
I used to drink a lot, I wouldn’t say I was an alcoholic but I was definitely drinking more than was sensible. And thanks to his views about this I’ve cut right back and am a better person for it.
I want to stand by him but I can’t accept it.
Is your partner still clean?
Sorry for all the re-posts – I was on my phone and I thought it wasn’t posting!
I’ve tried that. I’ve asked him to keep it away from me. But he isn’t doing so. He doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong and that I’m overreacting.
Should i ask him to leave? I can’t live with it and if he can’t stop I don’t see another alternative.
I feel like I’m failing him but it’s his problem and I have to think about myself and my son not just him
I’ve tried that. I’ve asked him to keep it away from me. But he isn’t doing so. He doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong and that I’m overreacting.
Should i ask him to leave? I can’t live with it and if he can’t stop I don’t see another alternative.
I feel like I’m failing him but it’s his problem and I have to think about myself and my son not just him
I’ve tried that. I’ve asked him to keep it away from me. But he isn’t doing so. He doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong and that I’m overreacting.
Should i ask him to leave? I can’t live with it and if he can’t stop I don’t see another alternative.
I feel like I’m failing him but it’s his problem and I have to think about myself and my son not just him
I’ve tried that. I’ve asked him to keep it away from me. But he isn’t doing so. He doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong and that I’m overreacting.
Should i ask him to leave? I can’t live with it and if he can’t stop I don’t see another alternative.
I feel like I’m failing him but it’s his problem and I have to think about myself and my son not just him
I’ve tried that. I’ve asked him to keep it away from me. But he isn’t doing so. He doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong and that I’m overreacting.
Should i ask him to leave? I can’t live with it and if he can’t stop I don’t see another alternative.
I feel like I’m failing him but it’s his problem and I have to think about myself and my son not just him
Hi all, this is my story too. We are 9 months in and it’s not the first time he’s used crack but the first time since we have been together. He was clean fir the first 2 years then his dad died and it’s getting increasingly more frequent. He’s now taking at least weekly. We live together and I know I am going to have to ask him to leave because I have a 15 year old son to think about.
He’s in denial atm.
Nothing works I’ve tried everything
What can I do?