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Lucy19 I’m so sorry to hear that. I Don’t even know what to say. I can’t even imagine the way you must be feeling right now. When you love someone it’s so much harder. It’s so hard to be strong. I have people telling me I deserve better. Just like I’m sure you do too. But I think there’s always that hope that the person we know and love is still there and will come back to us one day. My husband left for 3 weeks before lock down. He didn’t talk to me whilst he was gone and acted like I was the worst person in the world. I felt so lost and heart broken. But he said all the right things and I took him back. It’s not got any better. In some ways it’s got worse. I just keep hoping things will change.
I hope you and your children are ok. It’s such a shit situation for you all. Sending you a virtual hug xxx
I feel broken too. I’ve been with my husband for 20 years. We have 2 kids under 10. His drinking has got worse over the past 4 years. He drinks until he falls a sleep and don’t remember a thing the next day. It’s not every day. But when he drinks he’s like a different person. He says the most hurtful things to me. Because everything is my fault. It’s effecting his whole life. But he won’t get help no matter what I say. Now he wants to leave me. I feel so hurt. Like me and the kids are not worth getting better for. Lots of people have told me to leave him. But it’s not so easy is it. Especially as I love him. Although I don’t like who he is anymore.