onmyown

Forum Replies Created

Viewing 2 posts - 1 through 2 (of 2 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • in reply to: Don’t know what to do for the best #12507
    onmyown
    Participant

    Sorry to hear that you’re situation is similar to mine. Although it does help to know that we are not alone with how we feel.

    I have considered leaving on more than one occasion but I am convinced that it would make him worse rather than better.

    I do still love him but I hate what a hold his addiction has on him, it’s like you lose part of the person you are meant to be sharing your life with.

    Because I have never been around drugs before I met my husband I don’t really know what I should be doing to help/support him.

    I have wondered if going to couples counselling (as well as him having counselling) would help him realise that it is not just him that is being affected.

    We don’t have children so I can’t imagine how much more difficult that is for you.

    in reply to: Don’t know what to do for the best #12506
    onmyown
    Participant

    Sorry to hear that you’re situation is similar to mine. Although it does help to know that we are not alone with how we feel.

    I have considered leaving on more than one occasion but I am convinced that it would make him worse rather than better.

    I do still love him but I hate what a hold his addiction has on him, it’s like you lose part of the person you are meant to be sharing your life with.

    Because I have never been around drugs before I met my husband I don’t really know what I should be doing to help/support him.

    I have wondered if going to couples counselling (as well as him having counselling) would help him realise that it is not just him that is being affected.

    We don’t have children so I can’t imagine how much more difficult that is for you.

Viewing 2 posts - 1 through 2 (of 2 total)
DONATE