Hi, I’m in the exact same situation. My dad has never been violent, but is really verbally abusive when he is drunk, and will not leave me and my mum alone and always comes looking for an argument. I don’t know what to do anymore either. My mum wants to leave him but he says he will kill himself if she does. But I want my mum to be happy. But I also feel sorry for him because if my mum does leave him there is the chance he will go even more downhill.
Thanks for sharing your story. It really makes me feel better knowing that people are going through similar things.