Hiya, thanks for your replies.. since I wrote this post he has taken it another 3 or 4 times it’s basically weekly without fail sometimes twice… any stressful situation and he uses alcohol as a way of coping. There has been occasions where he’s been up the pub and not done it as he is trying and he doesn’t want to be on it…apparently.. Anyway there was an incident the other night where he was on it and a message from a female popped up on his phone and I literally left his house at 2am I was so upset. The next morning he is absolutely distraught and is crying and saying how much he wants to be with me but sometimes when he’s on that he talks to people..(why females?! When I’m upstairs in bed) was a huge kick in the teeth.. anyway he’s back to the “ill never hurt you again” I have just about had enough but what keeps me with him is the man who is sober and is the nicest most loving person. I know he’s going to slip up again the alcohol and drugs I can handle if he’s willing to help himself but when other women are involved that’s disrespect after everything I’ve had to deal with…
