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“I cannot see how I can carry on loving and supporting him if this awful behaviour keeps cropping up every 1-2 weeks.”

I don’t think you get to choose that. You love him or you don’t. Its a very tough one because although I have no experience of what you’re going through my job puts me in contact with a lot of people in similar situations. The one thing they all have in common is they couldn’t just stop loving someone because of this alone, and believe me they do try and make themselves.

I truly wish you nothing but the best and I hope you and your husband get the help you deserve.

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