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I’m so sorry you are going through this. I am an alcoholic. Married to one who is also a Cocaine addict. At least, from my education after more than one dui, I believe he is an addict. It’s something that I always kind of knew because we used to do it together. But after my last arrest, I have been sober for 1 year and 4 days. I can relate to the hateful things said during a bender, and the gaslighting when I was actively drinking. I messed up but it was a two way street. Nothing was ever his fault. Once I got sober, and he saw I was serious.. he gained more trust in me and saw that he actually was part of the problem. He has confessed that he wants to stop or at least slow down, but there has been minimal effort to do so. I’m worried about us long term and when we have children. I do not want them around two alcoholic parents, even though I’m in recovery. And definitely don’t want Cocaine or people using cocaine in our home when that time comes. Sorry for venting but just wanted to let you know— I get what you’re feeling and going through

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