[roger62]

This is my first post & I totally understand the feelings you are describing. My wife drinks at least one bottle of wine a day & is drunk every single day. The only time I am able to have a reasonable conversation with her is first thing in the morning as I know that when I return after work she will be drunk again! I’ve tried to ignore it in the hope that it may be a phase but it just seems to get worse. I think you questioning your feelings is perfectly natural as it is your own self preservation as at the same time you are questioning if your partner has feelings for you. Along with the anger that I feel, I am incredibly sad for my wife for the amount of time in her life she had spent under the influence & the amount of precious time she has wasted not being close to our children & grandchildren who now avoid her when she has had a drink. Personally I do not know what to do for the best.

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