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Hi kindredcyote I have just read your shout out and you are not alone as you can see from all the replies you have had on here we are all here to talk about our issues with our partners and loved ones. My husband is a cocaine addict and yes like your story he is often wide awake up all night long never coming to bed and I have spent many nights full of tears alone and confused but soon realised that I needed to talk to someone so I came here to Adfam and this has helped me through some very lonely times. With the cocaine also my husband follow a with alchole so and it’s a battle.I have tried talking to him when he is sober and all the promises that are promised by him never follow through it’s one big lie time after time and financial problems with his selfish habits. The only way you get through this is by getting him to seek outside help which I am going to try with my husband but its easier said than done and sadly they have to be the ones to accept it and work with that battle. Just remember that you are not alone Adfam forum is full of people who battle this on a daily basis. Message me anytime if you need to talk things through sometimes we need others to just talk through challenging situations. Hang in there
Hi ele1215
Your not alone my husband has a on going alchole problem and cocaine addiction it’s not you remember that, its him his way sadly of coping and being here is a good start for you to focus on you and your well being. Your stronger than you make yourself out to be because your a loving wife and support him thoe he may be unkind with words it’s the drink and drugs talking not him remember that. Hold your head up high and come on here to talk as we all suffer the same pain and together we will make it through. Hang in there
Hi Anonlady my husband has a alcohol and cocaine addiction and his moods are up and down on a daily basis so I know how this feels for you, the feeling of lost and feeling hopeless as nothing you say or do can stop him from abusing. My husband has walked out in the middle of the night with no communication on where or what’s going on it’s simply heart breaking but this is why I am here and together all of us are strong to get through these hard times we all understand that pain we feel and truth is your partner wont change until he wants to stop sadly, you must learn to live with that acceptance that it’s not you that’s the problem and for support when you feel down upset come here talk about it as this really helps me getting through life and knowing that your not alone in this as here you have support and advice. Hang in there and message any time.
Hi it’s just so exhausting putting up with talk of how our partners want to give up yet a week or so later they are back on again! I feel too lost in my situation with my husband who says he will kick the habit yet that’s just talk as it’s never followed up and then as soon as I dare question him somehow I am the bad person who is in the wrong for doing so and that really hurts when you love someone that much and I cant give up on him but it does make living with this issue of cocaine addiction from him hard to bear.Truth is like everyone will tell you on here if they really want to stop it has to come from them only they can control it and sadly we only have the support from kind people on here going through the same pain we sit through who understand our dispares and worries, I have found this forum so helpful knowing I am not alone so hang on in there we are battling this experience together x