[sad-and-tired]

I know how you feel, my son always says everything is my fault, my fault he stays out all night, my fault he spends all his money and runs into debt. Its me who is paranoid despite seeing messages to his friends about what he does and finding what I think is drug paraphanalia in his room. Despite me loving him even though he acts as though he hates me and verbally abuses me at every opportunity. xxx Drugs affect the whole family.

[sad-and-tired]

all I can say is get advice from places like open road. Most people have told me use tough love, don’t give money etc. I wish it had clicked with me earlier but it didn’t. Good luck

[sad-and-tired]

you are doing the right things. you need to protect your granddaughter. Could your son have her full time or you. If so continue reporting her until something is done. You will never forgive yourself if something dreadful happens. Good luck

[Author]

Posts