Hello i am in the middle of this crisis myself. I have registered with Al-Anon online group just so i can read live emails from others. Please do not be put of with the religious aspect if you are not religious. There are also Al-Anon meetings if you search for your local group. It doesnt solve the problem but it helps you learn how to look after yourself. The non drinker is effected just as much as the drinker. Im sat here now feeling manipulated by his behaviour but im trying to rationalise it.
Withdrawl is evil and causes effects we could not even begin to imagine. If this is not the first attemp at recovery the body can go into whats called the kindling effect.
Im sure you know that you must call emergency services if he starts to have any seizures or if hed has halucinations. Dont tell him though because he will tell you he doesnt need it. They will deal with your Husband with compassion and empathy honest. You will not be troubling them..
Ive only just registered and i felt i had to respond to your post
Thinking about you