[siany19@me.com]

Thank you and I’m new to this forum too, I find it hard talking to my husband about it because he said he tries to not put the craving into his brain but I think, he just says that because he’s scared to get help, so tries to change the subject instead. I know it’s not over and he will have another relapse and we keep going around in circles but I can only do so much and he’s the one, who needs to take that plunge and get help. I hope you come through the other side too but you are on the right road already because you’ve come on this forum and you know you don’t want to be doing it. I wish you all the luck!

[siany19@me.com]

Aww bless you, you sound like you know what your talking about and it beats you up too! My husband says he feels so guilty afterwards but finds it hard to resist. He says he doesn’t get cravings all the time but I’m not sure whether I believe that or not, I’ve tried being there for him on many occasions but it gets so exhausting, especially when he just wants to sleep in the afternoons and is not interested in doing much with us as a family and then promises, if he has the urge again, he will get help but never does. I know he loves us and would hate for us to leave but I can’t keep carrying on like I’m doing, when I’m only getting false promises and I don’t know the answer to why, he’s doing it or what he’s even get up to whilst doing it, when we are all in bed. The worst part, is having to put up with his mood swings days later, it’s like he wants to cause an argument over the slightest thing. At least your coming onto this forum because you know you need to get out of the rut your in, my husband keeps it all to himself, that’s where I know it’s going to be harder for him to give up. Hopefully you will come through the other side because you want to.

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