[sisterindistress]

Hi there, I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. It’s so sad that they’re so young, but hopefully that also means that if they can get the help they need as soon as they can, they will have the rest of their lives ahead of them to look forward to and enjoy. I know exactly what you mean about being kept awake, the constant worry and exhaustion, and panic everytime the phone rings. It definitely feels like an endless cycle of hopelessness, but we just have to stick at it and look after ourselves.

Sounds like moving to your fiancee’s family home is a really good move for you at the moment. I hope the move went/goes well ❤ all the best x

[sisterindistress]

Hi L,

Thank you so much for your message and support, it means a lot ❤ I’m so sorry to hear about your son, I’m struggling to process this as a sibling, and I do worry about the impact that it must also be having on my parents. You’re right in that it’s so difficult to process, I just never feel like I know where I stand and the hope starts to fade after a while. I’ve reached out to adfam counselling so am hoping I can get some support for me in the meantime – thank you for the suggestion.

All the best x

[sisterindistress]

Hiya! Thank you so much for your message, and please don’t apologise for not being able to give advice as such – this message has helped me no end, just in knowing that you understand and that, sadly, I’m not alone. I’m so sorry to hear about your sister, I hope she finds the help and support she needs and that you continue to look after yourself too. I hope we both find some answers soon. Sending a hug to you and your family x

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