Hi, i only joined today but I, like you, wonder why there are not many comments (I saw a previous comment by you).
First, its been 8 days so how is your son?
You’ve probably already made the decision to give/not give him the money but thought I would comment anyway.
My partner is in prison so I can imagine how scary it was to get that call.
You know your son best. If you feel he is in danger then I would pay it. But if you did you would really need to set some boundaries going forward. Is he in a rehab program? Do you get to visit him?
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